You've done the work on everything else. It's time to do the work on this.
WOMENS COACH · UK & ONLINE WORLDWIDE
You might be brilliant at your job, a devoted parent, a good friend, and still feel completely disconnected from your own desire. That disconnection isn't a character flaw. It's what happens when nobody ever taught you how to inhabit yourself fully. We can change that.
Sex and relationship coaching for women across the UK
ready to stop performing and start feeling.
Pleasure is your birthright and its time to rememeber that.
This is for you if…
→ You feel disconnected from your desire or your body and you don't know why
→ Sex feels like something you do for someone else, not something you actually enjoy
→ You're curious about your sexuality, maybe coming out later in life, or exploring a side of yourself you've kept quiet
→ You've been through something and your body hasn't caught up yet
→ You want more pleasure in your life and have no idea where to start
→ You just know something needs to shift and you're ready to look at it
I work with humans of all orientations and relationship structures. Bring whatever you're carrying.
What does coaching actually cover?
Understanding your desire.
The dual control model of arousal, understanding what turns your desire on and off. Science that finally makes sense of your body. Most women find this alone is revelatory.
Reclaiming your body.
Somatic and body-based work to feel at home in yourself again. Whether you've experienced trauma, disconnection, or years of putting everyone else first, the body knows. We learn to listen.
Shame and sexual confidence
The stuff you've never said out loud. The parts of your sexuality you've kept hidden. This is exactly the work I do, gently, curiously, without a single flinch.
Identity and coming out.
Realising later in life that your sexuality isn't what you thought is both terrifying and extraordinary. I work with women navigating exactly this.
Pleasure as a practice
Not just orgasms, though yes, those too. The broader, deeper practice of inhabiting your own pleasure. Understanding what you want. Asking for it. Receiving it without guilt.
How we work together
WHERE
Online via Zoom
Wherever you are in the world, from your own home, in private, at a time that suits you.
SESSION LENGTH
75 Minutes
Enough time to go somewhere real, not so long it becomes exhausting.
FREQUENCY
Weekly or fortnightly
Consistent enough to build momentum, spaced enough to let things settle.
CONFIDENTIALITY
Complete. Sacred. Non-negotiable.
Everything you share stays between us. I will never reference our work outside of sessions.
What women say
“I was stuck in the same toxic cycle for years. This coaching changed everything for me, I’m now in a relationship that truly makes me happy.”
V, 35
"I've spent years in therapy but Cherish got to things nobody else had. She was able to connect dots that I had been missing."
L, 42
“You’ll be surprised how trusting the process and your coach [cherish] will then transform into trusting yourself. You will learn and experience stuff you never thought was possible.”
J, 53
Are You Ready to Rewrite Your Love Story?
60 minutes entirely focused on you, what you're carrying, what you want to change, and what might actually help.