Come and be Cherish’d
Cherish’d is my free sex and relationship newsletter. Twice a month I answer one real question, the kind people only ask me once the door’s shut, and give you one small thing to try that week. Names and details are always removed.
What lands in your inbox
Cherish’d swings between the body and the heart. One issue might be about needing lube and worrying what he’ll think. The next might be about arguing every single day and still wanting it to work. Most turn out to be about both, because the bedroom and the kitchen table are a lot closer than people think.
Every issue has the same shape: the question, my honest answer (frank, warm and grounded in how desire actually works), and one thing to try before the next one arrives.
Questions people have asked me
“Is wanting sex this much normal?”
“He wants to open things up and I’m not sure I’m ready.”
“I’m scared to tell her I can’t always stay hard.”
“She shuts down every time we get close.”
If one of those made your stomach drop a little, you’re in the right place.
Who’s writing?
Hi, I’m Cherish: sex and relationship coach, unapologetic lube evangelist, and the person people tell the thing they’ve never told anyone. I’ve lectured for SDC.com and run the Pleasure Zone at Pride, so very little makes me blush. I don’t believe in a “normal” relationship. Nobody taught us how to do this, so let’s build yours on purpose, and make it delicious.
Ask me anything
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The small print
Cherish’d arrives every other Thursday.
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